lost?

Everyone goes through that time where they don't feel like themselves and even though they know who they are as a person, something happens in their lives where they seem to lose their sense of self.
yes, unfortunately that has occurred...funny thing is I recently went through that and got over it, and now its back? grrreat..
well atleast this time I know what it is from and I'm not confused.

I'm at such an interesting time in my life where I am learning more and more about myself, but when you're in a rut and can't seem to do anything, it is very difficult.

It's hard to have to deal with people constantly asking you "are you okay?" "whats wrong" "you don't seem like yourself"...well that's cause I'm not myself

ever wanted to just go hide under a rock and not deal with ANYONE or ANYTHING? yaaa...i'll see you in a month or so..



"they say time heals everything, but I'm still waiting..."

Expectations

so I am taking an english class at my college and I had to write an essay about family expectations and it made me think about a lot of things...

do you think it's okay to expect your child to do the things you told them to do? what if they had other things they wanted to do, do you still expect them to drop everything they want to do for example, their goals, to do what you wanted them to do?
there's advising and guiding a child, and expecting a child to do something. when you advise a child, you are giving them advice and guiding them though the tough times, but expecting them to do something is telling them, here is what you should do, do it!...honestly how do you expect a child to become an individual and to follow their dreams when you expect them to do what you want to do...

im not speaking from experience because my parents never did that (thank god) but i know people who do go through it and its not fair.

children need their space, they need their time to grow as individuals and if you don't give them that space, they will never find out who they are....


sighh anyways i just had to get that out, i know one of my friends is going through that so i wanted to just let my feelings out

why do they do that?

can someone please explain to me why ex's feel it's okay to get back with you after THEY break it off with you....does that make sense? absolutely not

you break it off, then you text me months after you break it off trying to get back with me....are you kidding? I'm sorry you couldn't find another girl but I'm definitely not about to come back to you; sorry, this ship has sailed.

I'm not the type of girl to dwell on past relationships and you shouldn't either, go out and do your thing because that is for sure what I'm doing.

and for all you guys who do that....STOP. Get over it, YOU'RE THE ONE WHO BROKE IT OFF....stick to your decision and leave her aloneeeeeee (chris crocker style)

for my first blog I think I got the job done.
Thank you, have a great night, god bless

xoxo