20 things

20 THINGS A GIRL SHOULD KNOW...

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man's behavior.
3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, leave him alone.
4. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
6. Don't force an attraction.
7. Slower is better.
8. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
9. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then hell no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
10. Have faith regarding your relationship, but don't let faith make you stupid.
11. Don't settle.
12. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
13. If he keeps changing his mind about the relationship-take that as a BIG sign that he is unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like that?
14. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
15. Honorable men take care of their business and aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
16. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
17. There's only one reason a man dumps you; he doesn't want you.
18. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
19. You really do have to kiss a few frogs before finding the prince.
20. Always put yourself and your happiness first.

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hmm rejection?

ello govna's

k so I've been talking to my bestie Travis about this topic lately..."rejection"

we were in a simple conversation when we started talking about rejection and we both blurted how we could not take rejection, so we tend to stay away from it...bad, I know

so let me give you a scenario: say I'm talking to a guy and he's not feeling me, instead of taking the upper hand and talking to him to get the story straight and get rejected, I just leave it alone and not even talk about it and just forget about the guy...which is not exactly a way to take things head on

I've been thinking about why I do this, and it's just a simple explanation...I just can't mentally deal with being rejected...as do a lot of people...but instead of conquering it and getting over it, I just continue to have that mentality, so when it comes to future guys that I date and if it goes in that direction, I just peace out rather than confronting them...

*sighhhh*


I always think to myself if that aspect about me will ever change, but then I think about how change is inevitable...hmmm

I hate trying...

wow guys...it's been awhile since I've posted one of these silly things =( I'm sorry

So I'm the type of girl who has learned not to go after guys...what I mean is I don't chase them down...I show them interest, if they are interested then they will return it you know...
but there's always those special guys who test you...make you try EVEN harder!!

I am not good at trying even harder to tell you the truth because I haven't been used to it...I'm not saying guys just crawl to me...but I do my fair share and they return it...

so now I'm in a situation where I have to try EXTRA hard and I'm not oblivious, so when I'm not being oblivious (we know how it's hard for guys to REALIZE a female is interested in them) then I can get put in the friend zone and umm NO...i don't do that

hmmm interesting right...
meh is the answer to that