Why should I fall in love?

so I asked myself, why should I fall in love when I was recently hurt by someone I truly loved....what's the point of it?
I asked that in a bulletin on myspace and got a GREAT response from one of my friends, and this is what he wrote: (I urge you guys to read this)

"Sweetie, being in love builds character. It tests our ability to commit to a purpose greater than ourselves. Being in love challenges our selflessness. Being in love helps define the meaning of life.

Oh Kimia,

Being in love, proves that all those things that you thought were important in your life, are mere post scripts to your total existence. You realize that it isn't what you receive in love, but what you give that matters.

If love cannot be unconditional, it CAN'T BE LOVE.


Good looks, sex, body candy etc...can NEVER stand the test of time. Love endures..it IS the very foundation of life.

Don't look for love, LOOK TO LOVE."


I loved what he told me and has helped me be a little more open to love


xoxo
Kimia

Did You Forget?

did you forget..that I was even alive, did you forget...everything we ever had
did you forget
did you forget
about me?

did you regret...ever standing by my side, did you forget..what we were feeling inside...now I'm left, to forget, about us
but somewhere we went wrong..we were once so strong; our love is like a song, you can't forget it

so now I guess..this is where we have to stand, did you regret..ever holding my hand? never again, please don't forget...don't forget

we had it all..we were just about to fall even more in love than we were before...I won't forget, I won't forget, about us


and at last...all the pictures have been burned, and all the past..is just a lesson that we've learned..
I won't forget, I won't forget...about us



but somewhere we went wrong...our love is like a song...but you won't sing along
you've forgotten...
about us




*sighhhh* =/

what happens when (2)

you're in a situation where you have to let go of all your problems and help the person that means most to you...but here's the twist...you need help as well

let me just say from experience...that is the HARDEST situation to go through...which is what I'm going through right now...
one of the people that I truly care for and love is going through a real rough time...as am I with my own personal shit...and I am the type of person where I will drop anything to help my friends in need
but when you realize that your mental stability is not stable (lol) you can't help that person because your issues are making it hard.

so when you let that person know that you can't, and they get EXTREMELY upset with you...what do you do? yeah, you can apologize...but apologize for saying "i cant help you right now because i am going through a lot as well and i cant focus on your problems right now.."???

so am i being selfish...so then should i become selfless? what do you do in this situation...

what happens when

you're good friends with people then you do something that you have to do for your family and yourself but it hurts and affects your friends....
now that's a good way to be discrete lol

after all is said and done..you are left with yourself..doesn't make sense right? ya I don't get it either...maybe its the saying where they just didn't appreciate your friendship enough to get over it....wait that's not a saying..I just made it up LOL

no I think that's a little harsh...or is it? When I watch movies like sisterhood of the traveling pants or sex and the city even I realize I don't have those friendships with the girls that I grew up with...I thought I did...but some people just change and that's life...
the one thing I truly hate though is fake friends and I feel like I am surrounded by millions of them...I cannot take people who act like they are cool to you, then the complete opposite when they are with someone else
I guess that is just immaturity at its finest

that is why I am glad I am moving to LA....wait LA is immature people galore....fml...well atleast I'm moving in with someone who I trust with my life and is the truest person I know

what am I supposed to do about these friends who I grew up with and still love to death...do I just not talk to them and occasionally do the awkward "hellos" and "how are yous"...

meh is the answer


xoxo