you're in a situation where you have to let go of all your problems and help the person that means most to you...but here's the twist...you need help as well
let me just say from experience...that is the HARDEST situation to go through...which is what I'm going through right now...
one of the people that I truly care for and love is going through a real rough time...as am I with my own personal shit...and I am the type of person where I will drop anything to help my friends in need
but when you realize that your mental stability is not stable (lol) you can't help that person because your issues are making it hard.
so when you let that person know that you can't, and they get EXTREMELY upset with you...what do you do? yeah, you can apologize...but apologize for saying "i cant help you right now because i am going through a lot as well and i cant focus on your problems right now.."???
so am i being selfish...so then should i become selfless? what do you do in this situation...
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if your friend is a true friend..he/she will understand. you can only support her/him so much and vice versa.
ReplyDeletei don't think you are being selfish at all. your friend is the one being selfish for wanting all your attention and focus rather than seeing that you have problems of your own too.
i love you khanny =] and youre right
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